LOVE CONVERSATIONS: Why does having a romantic affair with your co-worker offers more harm than good?

Love on the Job: The Hidden Dangers of Starting a Relationship with a Colleague

Globally, February is known to be the month when all forms of love are celebrated. As early as February 1st, you'll see many campaigns, online and offline, emphasizing the relevance of Valentine's. We are conditioned to think that the entire month should be about love, and traditionally the peak of the celebration is set to be on February 14th.

On the same day, people flock streets to go out on a date with their significant others. Whether to watch a movie or eat out in a fancy restaurant, Valentine's day has been one of the most well-known celebrations all over the world. Since we're talking about the month of love, let's look into one of the most common issues about relationships in the workplace.

Does having an affair with someone from your office offer more harm than good? What does it entail when you decide to be with someone you work with?

Many companies have strict policies in terms of workplace romance. While others are silent about it, many are clear that it should not be encouraged. Other companies also have zero tolerance for the idea of being in a relationship with someone you work with, and for good reasons. When you're dating someone you work with, the lines become blurry. You now don't know the boundaries of your relationship.

As a result, some things in your relationship might affect how you carry on with your job. This is especially true if your partner is someone you work with directly within the office. Conflicts within the relationship may carry over at work, hampering your productivity and efficiency. This harms the company on many levels. Apart from that, there are many things you have to deal with when you enter this kind of setup.

Although one cannot control their feelings towards other people, making a strategic decision regarding relationships is possible. If you can handle the ins and outs of this setup and it is not prohibited in your company, then go ahead. But if you think the risks are too much, it's a sign that you're meant for something else.

Whether it brings more harm than good, you can decide what you do with your life. Choose love and be kind, always.